SELECT 
  category_id, 
  parent_id 
FROM 
  cscart_categories 
WHERE 
  parent_id IN(
    216, 204, 210, 212, 211, 213, 209, 217, 
    215, 214, 208, 218
  ) 
  AND category_id != 264

Query time 0.00025

JSON explain

{
  "query_block": {
    "select_id": 1,
    "table": {
      "table_name": "cscart_categories",
      "access_type": "range",
      "possible_keys": ["PRIMARY", "parent", "p_category_id"],
      "key": "parent",
      "key_length": "3",
      "used_key_parts": ["parent_id"],
      "rows": 18,
      "filtered": 100,
      "index_condition": "cscart_categories.parent_id in (216,204,210,212,211,213,209,217,215,214,208,218)",
      "attached_condition": "cscart_categories.category_id <> 264"
    }
  }
}

Result

category_id parent_id
208 204
209 204
210 204
212 211
213 211
214 211
216 215
217 215
218 215